{"id":3931,"date":"2019-10-27T20:00:07","date_gmt":"2019-10-27T17:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ulubat.org\/?p=3931"},"modified":"2019-10-27T13:01:25","modified_gmt":"2019-10-27T10:01:25","slug":"crt-sevdigime-cicek-almami-soyluyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ulubat.org\/index.php\/genel\/crt-sevdigime-cicek-almami-soyluyor\/","title":{"rendered":"CRT SEVD\u0130\u011e\u0130ME \u00c7\u0130\u00c7EK ALMAMI S\u00d6YL\u00dcYOR"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>D\u00fcnyan\u0131n en k\u0131sa IQ testi ABD&#8217;li Prof.Shane Frederick taraf\u0131ndan haz\u0131rland\u0131.Tam 3 soru.<br \/>\n1-)Bir tenis raketi ile bir topun toplam fiyat\u0131 1.10 dolar.Raket toptan 1 dolar daha pahal\u0131.Topun fiyat\u0131 ne?<br \/>\n2-)5 adet makine 5 dakikada 5 adet alet \u00fcretiyor.100 adet makine 100 adet aleti ka\u00e7 dakikada \u00fcretir?<br \/>\n3-)Bir g\u00f6l\u00fcn y\u00fczeyinde bir adet zambak yapra\u011f\u0131 var ve her g\u00fcn bu yaprak,bir g\u00fcn \u00f6nceki haline g\u00f6re iki kat daha fazla alan kaplayacak \u015fekilde b\u00fcy\u00fcyor.Yapra\u011f\u0131n g\u00f6l\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn y\u00fczeyini kaplamas\u0131 48 g\u00fcn s\u00fcr\u00fcyorsa g\u00f6l\u00fcn yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ka\u00e7 g\u00fcnde kaplar?<br \/>\n(Test 2005 y\u0131l\u0131nda geli\u015ftirilse de internet oratam\u0131nda yeni viral oldu.)<br \/>\nL\u00fctfen sorular\u0131n cevab\u0131n\u0131 bir yere not edin ve yaz\u0131y\u0131 okumaya ba\u015flay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ay i\u00e7erken,1200 tl tutan lenslerin faturas\u0131n\u0131 inceliyordu.G\u00f6zl\u00fck kullanmak istemeyen han\u0131m\u0131,\u00fc\u00e7 hafta \u00f6nce istemi\u015fti bu lensleri ondan.Adam faturay\u0131 katlay\u0131p g\u00f6mle\u011finin cebine koydu.Tam kap\u0131dan \u00e7\u0131kacakken yeni ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 lensleri kaybeden han\u0131m\u0131,tela\u015fla odaya giriverdi.1 dakika sonra adam kay\u0131p lensleri salonda buldu.\u015ea\u015f\u0131p kalan kad\u0131n:&#8221;Ama ben ka\u00e7 kere bakt\u0131m oralara?&#8221;derken, yeni buldu\u011fu lensleri avu\u00e7lar\u0131nda s\u0131k\u0131ca tutan adam da han\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n neden bulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u015fu s\u00f6zlerle \u00f6zetler:&#8221;Senin arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n iki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015feffaf plastik.Benim arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ise 1200 tl idi.&#8221;<br \/>\nKad\u0131n ve erkek, ne kadar farkl\u0131 birbirinden de\u011fil mi?<br \/>\nBu arada makalelenin yaz\u0131m amac\u0131 CRT di\u011fer ismi ile B\u0130L\u0130\u015eSEL YANSITMA TEST\u0130&#8217;nin kad\u0131n-erkek  psikolojisine kar\u015f\u0131 bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz ili\u015fkilerindeki yeri olacak.<br \/>\nNEDEN M\u0130 \u00c7\u0130\u00c7EK?<br \/>\n\u00c7o\u011fu insan \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fe para vermeyi pek faydac\u0131 bulmaz.Onun yerine yar\u0131m kilo f\u0131st\u0131kl\u0131 baklava almak daha akla yatk\u0131nd\u0131r.Ancak kad\u0131nlar\u0131n psikolojisi biraz farkl\u0131 i\u015fliyor.De\u011fer g\u00f6rmek,payla\u015fmak ve yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak gibi hislerle manevi doyum sa\u011fl\u0131yorlar.Genel olarak insan\u0131 motive etmenin en iyi yollar\u0131ndan biri, ona sayg\u0131ya de\u011fer oldu\u011funu hissettirmektir.Sevildi\u011finin ve de\u011ferli oldu\u011funu hissetirmenin en pratik yolu ise;hediye edilen bir demet \u00e7i\u00e7ekten ge\u00e7er.Asl\u0131nda hediyenin \u00e7i\u00e7ek olamas\u0131n\u0131n as\u0131l sebebi fazla abart\u0131ya ka\u00e7mamas\u0131,kokusu,g\u00fczelli\u011finin ortamda olu\u015fturdu\u011fu enerji ve en \u00f6nemlisi verilen de\u011ferlilik hissidir.Bu hareket zihinlerde hat\u0131rlanmak ve sevilmek olarak alg\u0131lanacakt\u0131r.<br \/>\n\u00c7\u0130\u00c7EK ALMAZSANIZ NE M\u0130 OLUR?<br \/>\nAra\u015ft\u0131rman\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131na duygusal bo\u015flukta olan yani kendisinin de\u011fer g\u00f6rmed\u011fini ve kendisine sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterilmedi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen, hisseden kad\u0131n \u00fcz\u00fclecektir.Bu bo\u015flu\u011fu al\u0131\u015fveri\u015f yaparak doldurmas\u0131 bir yana ili\u015fkideki huzursuzlu\u011fu size yetecektir.Sahip olma duygusunun sa\u011flayaca\u011f\u0131 ge\u00e7ici tatmin duygusu da hi\u00e7bir zaman doyurulmayacakt\u0131r.<br \/>\nG\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi \u00e7i\u00e7ek semboliktir.G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde sevgi g\u00f6stergesi olarak kabul edildi\u011fi i\u00e7in &#8220;1 \u00e7i\u00e7ek hediye etmek&#8221; \u00fczerinden misal verdim.\u00d6nemli olan ne ded\u011finiz ya da ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z de\u011fil, ne hissetirdi\u011finizdir.<br \/>\nB\u0130L\u0130\u015eSEL YANSITMA TEST\u0130 NE S\u00d6YL\u00dcYOR?<br \/>\nEEE tamam ama bunun bilimsellikle ne alakas\u0131 var dedi\u011finizi duyar gibiyim.Cevaplar geliyor o zaman.<br \/>\nHatas\u0131z D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme Sanat\u0131 kitab\u0131nda da benzer bir durumdan bahsedilir.Shane Frederick yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 &#8221; B\u0130L\u0130\u015eSEL YANSITMA TEST\u0130 &#8220;,ili\u015fkideki as\u0131l huzursuzlu\u011fun temel mant\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rebilmemize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olyor.Test asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok basit.\u0130nsanlar kendilerine sorulan her soruya iki \u015fekilde cevap verir.Ya anl\u0131k sezgilerine g\u00f6re ya da mant\u0131klar\u0131na g\u00f6re.\u00d6rnek verilecek olursa:<br \/>\nD\u00fcnyada ilk defa Colombia \u00dcniversitesi\u2019nde Walter Mischel taraf\u0131ndan 1970 y\u0131l\u0131nda uygulanan \u201cMarshmallow Testi\u201d di\u011fer ad\u0131yla \u201cZevki Erteleme Becerisi Testi\u201d bunun \u00e7ocuklardaki \u00f6rne\u011fi basit misali ise \u015fimdi 9000 tl mi yoksa bir ay sonra 10000 tl mi?B\u0130L\u0130\u015eSEL YANSITMA TEST\u0130 sonucu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck olan ki\u015filer (sezgilerine g\u00f6re davrananlar), 9000 tl&#8217;yi tercih ederler.Onlar zor sabrederler daha at\u0131lgand\u0131rlar.\u00d6te yandan, B\u0130L\u0130\u015eSEL YANSITMA TEST\u0130&#8217;nin sonucu daha y\u00fcksek olan ki\u015filer, \u00e7o\u011funlukla bir ay beklemeyi tercih ediyor.Bu testin sonucu anl\u0131k tatminden vazge\u00e7me seviyesini g\u00f6steriyor ve ileride bunun m\u00fckafat\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131yorlar.<\/p>\n<p>Duygusal olarak mutlu edilmeyen kad\u0131nlar\u0131n &#8220;ke\u015ffetme&#8221; yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131 artacak ve &#8220;Bili\u015fsel Yans\u0131tma&#8221;seviyeleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck olacakt\u0131r.Yani al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fe de \u00e7\u0131kmadan da kendilerini mutlu hissetmeleri \u00f6nemli.&#x1f60a;&#x1f60a;<br \/>\nBu arada yukar\u0131da sordu\u011fumuz 3 soruya sizde 10 cent, 100 dakika ve 24 g\u00fcn diye cevap verdiyseniz, sizde \u015fu an duygular\u0131n\u0131za g\u00f6re hareket ediyorsunuz ve ke\u015fif taraf\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 gerekiyor.Do\u011fru cevaplar 5 cent, 5 dakika ve 47 g\u00fcn olacakt\u0131.<br \/>\nBu testi sevdiklerinize uygulay\u0131n.Testin sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 ke\u015ffetmek olarak \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor ve onlardaki duygusal bo\u015flu\u011fa i\u015faret ediyorsa, hemen cektinizi giyin, ko\u015farak ona \u00e7i\u00e7ek almaya gidin.E\u011fer solmas\u0131n diyorsan\u0131z, saks\u0131s\u0131 ile beraber getirin.Elinizde \u00e7i\u00e7ekle o soka\u011f\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fcmek i\u015fin en heyecanl\u0131 taraf\u0131 zaten.O zaman soka\u011f\u0131n uzad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve yava\u015f yava\u015f ate\u015finizin y\u00fckseldi\u011fini hissedeceksiniz bunun sebebini de ba\u015fka bir yaz\u0131da s\u00f6yleyelim.<\/p>\n<p>KAYNAK\u00c7A<br \/>\n-B\u0130L\u0130\u015eSEL YANSITMA TEST\u0130 ve SONU\u00c7LARI<br \/>\n-HATASIZ D\u00dc\u015e\u00dcNME SANATI (ROLF DOBELLI)<br \/>\n-G\u00f6rsel:https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?sa=i&amp;source=images&amp;cd=&amp;ved=2ahUKEwjHpdWclrzlAhWRA2MBHajcDgYQjRx6BAgBEAQ&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Ftr.stockfresh.com%2Fstock-photos%2Fbuket%2F10&amp;psig=AOvVaw3n0mPdhHhguB54vk6E3VwH&amp;ust=1572256533922654<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>D\u00fcnyan\u0131n en k\u0131sa IQ testi ABD&#8217;li Prof.Shane Frederick taraf\u0131ndan haz\u0131rland\u0131.Tam 3 soru. 1-)Bir tenis raketi ile bir topun toplam fiyat\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":189,"featured_media":3934,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"acf":[],"views":680,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ulubat.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3931"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ulubat.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ulubat.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ulubat.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/189"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ulubat.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3931"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ulubat.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3931\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3996,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ulubat.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3931\/revisions\/3996"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ulubat.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3934"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ulubat.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3931"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ulubat.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3931"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ulubat.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3931"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}